Anniversary Flowers Guide: Meanings, Colors, and Easy Gifting Etiquette

Want to send the perfect anniversary bouquet but not sure where to start? Here’s a friendly, no-stress guide that answers the most common questions people ask—plus quick tips you can copy straight into your card.

Is there a plant called “anniversary”?

Not officially. There isn’t a botanical species named “anniversary,” but florists and garden centers often label long-lasting plants as anniversary gifts. Great choices: orchids, peace lilies, mini rose bushes, anthuriums, and succulents. A potted plant feels symbolic because it grows with the relationship.

What is the symbol for each anniversary?

Traditions vary by country, but many couples follow a “flower of the year” or the classic gift materials (paper, cotton, etc.). Here’s a handy flower-by-year list you can use:

Tip: If the “official” flower isn’t your partner’s style, choose their favorite bloom in the milestone color (silver for 25th, gold/yellow for 50th).

What color should anniversary flowers be?

There are no strict rules—go with what your partner loves. If you want symbolism:

• Red: classic romance, passion
  

• Pink: admiration, sweetness
  

• White/Cream: pure love, new chapters
  

• Yellow: joy, friendship (modern meanings; the old “jealousy” myth has faded)
  

• Lavender/Purple: enchantment, elegance
  

• Peach/Coral: gratitude and warmth
  

For milestone themes: silver-toned whites for the 25th; golden yellows for the 50th.

What flower represents marriage?

Several do, depending on tradition:

• Orange blossom: historic wedding symbol of fidelity and fertility
  

• Stephanotis (often called “the wedding flower”): marital happiness
  

• Myrtle: love and marriage in royal traditions
  

• Peony: a happy, prosperous union
  

• Roses: enduring love across all stages

What color roses represent an anniversary?

• Red roses are the universal anniversary choice.
  

• White or ivory roses suit early years or a vow renewal.
  

• Pink shows gratitude and admiration.
  

• Yellow feels celebratory—perfect for family anniversaries or golden milestones.
  

• Mixed reds & whites symbolize unity.
  

How many flowers should I give on an anniversary?

Use one of these easy “rules”:

• Match the year (7 stems for year seven)
  

• Classic dozens: 12 for “be mine,” 24 for “always thinking of you”
  

• Single, dramatic stem: romantic minimalism
  

• Statement numbers: 10 (perfect), 18 (sincerity), 25 or 50 for big milestones
  

There’s no wrong number—choose what fits your story and budget.

Do you need flowers for an anniversary?

Not required! Flowers are popular because they’re personal and immediate. But experiences (dinner, show, weekend away), plants (a living memory), or handwritten letters can be just as meaningful. You can also pair a modest bouquet + a heartfelt note—often more touching than an expensive arrangement.

Should I get my parents flowers for their anniversary?

Absolutely—parents rarely treat themselves. Choose an elegant mixed bouquet (soft whites, blush, or their wedding colors), or a potted orchid/rose bush that lasts. Add a framed photo from their wedding or a recent family picture. Don’t forget a card signed by all the kids/grandkids.

What color flowers for the 25th anniversary (Silver)?

Keep the palette white, cream, and soft greys with silver accents:

• White roses, calla lilies, orchids, or peonies
  

• Dusty miller or eucalyptus for that cool, silvery foliage
  

• A silver ribbon or vase ties the theme together
  

What is an “anniversary rose”?

Two meanings:

1. Any rose gifted for an anniversary (usually long-stemmed reds or the couple’s wedding color), or
   

2. A named garden rose bred for gifting (e.g., “Silver Anniversary” types). If your partner loves gardening, a potted or bare-root rose they can plant is a beautiful, lasting option.
   

What flower is traditionally associated with the 25th anniversary?

Iris is commonly cited for the silver anniversary (symbolizing faith, wisdom, and promise). Many people still choose white roses or calla lilies to keep the silver-white theme. You can combine them: white roses with a few purple or blue irises and a silver ribbon.

Can we give a bouquet on an anniversary?

Yes—bouquets are the standard. For extra thoughtfulness:

• Ask your florist for a hand-tied bouquet with a water pack if you’ll be out.
  

• Include one stem of the year’s symbolic flower if you like tradition.
  

• Add a keepsake vase so the gift lives on after the blooms fade.
  

• Pair with a short, personal note (see below).
  

Quick Picks by Situation

• Romantic, at-home dinner: 12–24 red or blush roses, low vase so you can see each other.
  

• Surprise at the office: Mixed seasonal bouquet in your partner’s favorite color; ask for long vase life blooms.
  

• Family milestone (25th/50th): White-silver or golden palette with iris (25th) or yellow roses (50th).
  

• Budget-friendly: 5–7 stems of a premium flower (rose, lily, peony) + greenery looks luxe.
  

Card Message Starters (steal these!)

• “Still choosing you—today and every day.”
  

• “Another year, still my favorite story.”
  

• “Silver years, golden memories.” (25th)
  

• “Half a century and forever to go.” (50th)
  

Pro Tips for a Flawless Gift

• Timing: Have flowers arrive the day of or the evening before.
  

• Allergies/fragrance: Ask for low-pollen or lightly scented blooms if sensitivity is a concern.
  

• Care: Include simple care notes—fresh cut, clean water, away from heat/sun.
  

• Personal touch: Tie in wedding colors, a song lyric, or a memory from the year.
  

Bottom Line

There’s no single “correct” anniversary flower—the right choice is the one that reflects your relationship. Use the flower-by-year list and milestone colors as a guide, then personalize by favorite blooms, memories, and a heartfelt note. That’s the arrangement they’ll remember.